bentengtogel I LOVE THIS! My church does a very good job with memorials for babies lost. One was in memory of a little baby who died, his name was Tanner. Another was in memory of a little boy named Zachary. A little baby also died, named Gracie. It was nice to be able to go and think of your babies and feel hope in your hearts as well. My husband’s cousin lost her little boy he was named Cooper too. Also he is buried in this cemetery. He was born at the beginning of this year. (He has a twin.) This was by far the most touching thing I have ever read. I was both saddened and blessed by this. Thank you. I stumbled on your blog from another blog.
I read the post on June 29. I lost my first son at 26 weeks. Here, I am now on my 2nd son. I had lost so much weight and just couldn’t find the energy to continue going through the pregnancy. I know in my heart I just didn’t have enough time with him. Also, I have had 5 stillborn children. I now have three living children. I wish I could go back in time and hold my son, but I am grateful for the knowledge of the gospel and eternal life we have. It has helped me get through the past several years.
Bentengtogel: It was not easy. I know now why those mothers want another child so badly, even though they can’t. It is for that reason, that they have faith and hope, and we who have lost do too. I too know what you are talking about. I know how you feel. Here, I know that everyone’s child is special and precious. I love the verse I wrote for a friend that I knew who lost a child. Her angel had passed away. For all of those who mourn, or will miss a loved one, know that they are eternally protected by a loving Father in Heaven. When I think about my child’s death, I know that they are my family, no matter where they may be.
Bentengtogel: They are our loved ones, and we are there for them. I truly know this, and know that I am in a better place. Bless you and your family. I cried like a baby as I read this beautiful story. How do I ever thank you enough for sharing this with all of us? You are a wonderful person. I so understand your pain and emotions. I too lost a child. But his name is Trev. Your story hit home. Thank you for your strength, love and kindness you have shared.
I want to say that you are awesome and angel mommy! Thank you for sharing your little sweet Trev. What a beautiful tribute! As a mother to two little girls and one little boy, I couldn’t imagine the pain you’ve endured. I’m sure your little angel felt so protected, loved, and cherished. To see his precious name written in so much detail was so beautiful. I am SO sorry for your loss.
There are no words I could say that would ease your pain. Please know that I’m thinking about you today, with a heavy heart. You and your family are in my prayers. Thank you for writing such a beautiful story, giving us all a glimpse into your world, heart and soul. To have gone through what you have, not knowing the answers to all the questions, and having to let go is heartbreaking. I truly understand all that you’re feeling.
Loss is loss, and you just have to come to terms with it. This was a beautiful and heartbreaking story. Your writing is really beautiful, and your devotion and love for your baby was touching. I’m so glad you got to have him for a little while, as I cannot imagine loosing a child that I had time with, although it is difficult, it is so much better that way. You did nothing wrong! But I can imagine the pain of the family and especially the father, knowing that he could never hold his son. My prayers are with you and your family. I have never in my life heard of a Father’s grief so deep. My son was born with a heart defect and spent his entire little life in the hospital,